After a breakup, many of us can’t help but wonder how to manifest your ex back. Is it even possible?
The short answer: Yes… but….
The Law of Attraction has definitely worked to bring exes back together, however, there are a few things you’ll want to keep in mind before trying it out for yourself.
If you’ve been wondering how to manifest your ex back, keep on reading for our best tips and tricks.
First of all, all of us have free will.
What does that have to do with it?
Both people will have to want to be together for it to work. If the relationship stands a chance of being good, and there are still some feelings for each other, then your chances of success will be much higher.
If the relationship was toxic, and if your ex has completely moved on and is happy with someone else, then it’s not very likely that you’ll be coming together unless things change down the road.
Another thing to think about is to ask yourself if this is actually what you want.
I know that may sound completely silly, but hear me out.
You can be heartbroken from a relationship and desperately want it back, however, listen to the voice inside of you. Is it telling you that you’re actually better off without your ex? Could you do better? Are you just afraid to be alone?
Really dig deep to make sure you’re going about this for the right reasons.
If you love and miss your ex, but you have a feeling they may not be the best for you, it’s better to just let it go. Trust that something… someone… better is out there for you. Work on healing from this situation so that you can attract in something better for you.
So with those things in mind, here’s how to manifest someone back quickly into your life.
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How do you manifest someone back into your life
Get Clear on Why You Want Your Ex Back
You want to make sure you’re doing this for the right reasons. If your relationship was toxic, abusive, or something you weren’t happy in for any other reason, this is something you really should let go of.
If this relationship made you both happy but something else was in the way such as distance, or a misunderstanding, then it could be worth trying to save.
Before you get started, if you’ve decided that using the Law of Attraction to get your ex back is what you want to do, then get clear on what you want the relationship to look like. What changes do you want to see this time around to make both of you better and happier? Keep those in mind going forward.
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Visualize Being Back Together
Once you have gotten clear on how you want to relationship to be, then begin to visualize you and your ex as already being in that space together. Picture with clarity what life looks like for you both going forward.
Did you want to have better communication? Then perhaps picture you both in a cozy setting having an effortless and harmonious conversation together. Whatever it is for you, picture it clearly.
While using visualization, be sure to be in the feeling of what the situation would feel like.
If you’re freshly broken up it can feel hard to feel the feelings of joy, love, and happiness with the person you’re missing, but feeling the energy of it as if it’s your current reality is very important. Also, be sure to feel gratitude for being together again.
To help you along, you could use the Law of Attraction scripting method to really hone into the details and emotions of your visualizations.
Notice Your Limiting Beliefs and Clear Them
Sometimes we can sabotage a great relationship because of our limiting and negative beliefs and negative energy. We may not feel worthy of the love we are getting, and end up causing issues where there are really none, and that can spiral to the point of the relationship ending.
Some examples of limiting beliefs in relationships are:
- Feeling unlovable
- Feeling unworthy of love
- Feeling not good enough
- Fear of abandonment
- Fear of rejection
When you have negative emotions, negative thoughts, and negative feelings like this about yourself consciously or unconsciously, it can wreak havoc on any of your relationships, especially romantic ones.
Have a look inside of yourself and see if any of these feelings could be holding you back. If you’re noticing some, then it will be very imperative for you to work through those so they won’t contribute to sabotaging your relationships anymore.
Repeat Affirmations to Yourself
Affirmations are great for anyone, but if you find some limiting beliefs as we spoke about above, then affirmations can be a great way to help you shift some of those beliefs.
An example is, let’s say that you feel unlovable. To help combat that feeling, you could begin to say positive affirmations to yourself such as:
- I am loveable
- I am worthy of so much love
- Being loved is my birthright
- I love myself unconditionally
- I only attract relationships that offer unconditional love
Find where your weak spots are, and create supportive affirmations around them to change the story. You can learn how to create great affirmations in this post.
You could also use different Law of Attraction methods to help move things along. Using the 55×5 Law of Attraction method would be great for any affirmations you create.
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This may feel like the hardest part of attracting your ex back, but you then have to let it go. If you’re feeling desperate and if you’re obsessing about wanting them back, that’s actually going to make it so much harder to bring it into your life.
The feeling of desperation sends out the energy of not having what you want yet, and the Universe responds to that and brings you more of what matches that energy, which would be to continue not having what (or who) you want.
To help things move along smoother and quicker, it’s best to release your thoughts outside of your active manifestation time and let the Universe get to work on your behalf.
Don’t try to control the situation and don’t focus on how it’s going to happen. The ‘how’ is none of your business. Let the Universe do the work for you.
Should I get back with my ex?
Even if you really want your ex back, and the Universe brings it to you, be sure to double check with yourself before jumping back in.
Sometimes things change, and through this process and healing, you may decide that you’re better off without your ex. That’s totally okay! You’re allowed to change your mind.
I hope this was helpful for you when considering how to make your ex want you back, and making it happen with the Law of Attraction. Hopefully soon you’ll be saying “I manifested my ex back”!
These tips should be helpful for you if you’ve been wondering how to manifest your ex back by using the Law of Attraction.
Good luck to you on your manifestations!